Listen now | I’m sitting in the living room of a beautiful home. It is late morning, and the light is streaming through the glass doors that lead out to the wooden porch. I’m not visiting friends. I’m actually here to get worked out. It’s the second day of a three-day one-to-one coaching session. It’s just me and my coach in the room. I’m on the couch facing the glass doors – looking towards the light, if you will. They are standing directly in front of me, pacing, taking notes on oversized post-it notes as I share.